Dating closeted

I suppose they might even ask you to pretend to be straight in some circumstances, but that isn't something I'd agree to, personally.I hope that my answer will make clear why I have chosen to answer anonymously.I would much rather 'shout from the rooftops', and one day, I will. When I was a teenager, the expectation was that a 'heterosexual relationship' was normal.Although I had had feelings for other girls, I assumed that this was just part of adolescence, part of growing up.Then, things start to pick up and get a bit more serious; it’s finally time to DTR.You start talking about becoming more exclusive, and you couldn't be more excited at the prospect of starting a serious relationship with this phenomenal individual.I am trying to prevent that by laying everything on the table.I'm worried that if I don't lay everything on the table, then if I talk to a guy and he finds out I am in the closet, then he will reject me, no questions ask, no compromises willing to be made, no excuses accepted.

I'm sure you can imagine, acres of lace, bridesmaids, glorious flowers, champagne and, a feeling of 'now what.' I settled down to married life, a 'successful' married life if material goods and nice holidays are the indicator.It genuinely didn't occur to me that I was gay.When I went to University, I had an 'encounter' with another girl, but I backed off because I found it hard to believe that my feelings were anything other than loneliness.For a time, I was 'happy', as the years passed, I thought that my feelings of 'something not right' were due to a desire for a child.My son is, quite simply, the most wonderful thing in my life.

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